After writing honestly about 2025, I noticed something uncomfortable: insight feels good, but it’s also a hiding place. Understanding myself isn’t the same as changing my behavior. I’ve been very good at the first part. The second part is where things usually fall apart. So instead of setting big goals or reinventing myself again, I’m… Continue reading What I’m Doing Differently This Time (Even When I Don’t Feel Ready)
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My Blind Spot (and Why I Keep Overcomplicating My Own Peace)
You know those days when you’re tired, but it’s not the kind of tired sleep fixes?Yeah. That kind. I was talking with someone (okay, fine — an AI, but a brutally honest one), and it hit me: my biggest blind spot isn’t that I’m not doing enough. It’s that I’m doing too much, for all… Continue reading My Blind Spot (and Why I Keep Overcomplicating My Own Peace)
Signs Your Body Is Rejecting People, Places, and Things (And What That Really Means)
You know that weird feeling when you walk into a place you used to love… and instead of comfort, you feel heavy? Or when someone you once felt safe with suddenly makes you restless, anxious, or even empty inside? That’s not just “being moody.” That’s your body trying to talk to you. It doesn’t reject… Continue reading Signs Your Body Is Rejecting People, Places, and Things (And What That Really Means)
Then and Now: Same Wound, New Face
You’ve cried in different rooms.Different seasons.Different beds. But the ache? It feels familiar. You thought: “Maybe if I change my environment, things will get better.” But despite the changes on the outside, your heart still feels neglected. The Truth Is: You didn’t just need a new circumstance.You needed a new experience of love. Not one… Continue reading Then and Now: Same Wound, New Face
Why I Left My Job
From day one I already know that the job wasn't for me. It was high-paying and it had great benefits, but I just couldn't get myself to enjoy it. One of the reasons I hated my previous job was the bosses. It was a big company with so many bosses I even couldn't know all… Continue reading Why I Left My Job
If I Could Go Back In Time
There are a lot of things I would do differently if I could go back in time. If I could have a "do-over" for some of the choices I've made, that would be great! But, since we can't turn back time, I have to live with the decisions I've made in the past. Which timeline… Continue reading If I Could Go Back In Time